hearing about okay-cupid again reminds me of the reason I left was ,other than the couples trying to get me in as their third or cis men messaging me their fetishes even after i put on my profile no sex talk or asking me about my Junk, the fact that someone deadnamed me from a random profile that Ive never seen before with no picture and I never put my dead name on my proifile. I was worried someone in real life would find out I was nonbinary so I deleted my account
r/edkatherine is back on twitter and making naruto art just a forewarning
since not everyone knows, r/edkatherine is an artist who’s a radfem/terf and has made many drawings and comics depicting trans women as evil men just preying on cis lesbians, basically called all trans women rapists, and claims that trans men are confused women who just “refuse to claim their womenhood”. has also drawn violent depictions against trans people, the most well known being a witch’s cauldron boiling trans people. yea
what cis ppl in general will never understand is that casual, slight, vague transphobia still fuckin hurts. transphobic subtext hurts. CISNORMATIVITY hurts.
it’s the TINIEST things, like not having the option to choose your gender identity when signing up for something. when people joke about gender and it revolves around genitals. seeing everything, everywhere, pandering to cis gender roles. maybe there’s no ill intention behind this stuff. maybe they aren’t actually against trans people. but it still normalizes a generally cisgender society, and every time i come across it, it’s a reminder that we DO live in that society. and it hurts.
this is a post for trans people, about trans people, whether straight or not! don’t change it into anything else! cis people can reblog but don’t say shit!
